Sunday, December 28, 2014

Ruminations at the end of another year...

Now that the extravagance of the Christmas holiday has passed, and the decadence of the New Year’s Eve rituals are but three days away, I wonder how many of us become aware of our human condition.  Just what is the human condition?

The news reports that terrorists are intent on killing the infidel’s; that our Police officers are under attack; that domestic violence is happening more than we realize; that children are being abused physically, sexually, mentally… and sometimes by the very people they should trust; that scientists are feuding about global climate change; that education is failing our children; that homelessness is rampant; that hunger is rampant; that drug and alcohol abuse is rampant; and the list of negatives about humans and their lives is endless.

Good news doesn’t always make front page. And yet, there are, in my opinion, more good people than bad people. There are zealots in every religion: some become terrorists, and others do individual acts of violence. But how about the humans who are kind, generous, thoughtful, forgiving, caring, and who act on those feelings? These people are evident and probably in every faith known to humankind. And there are people who do not espouse a religion or go to church who can also be kind, generous, thoughtful, forgiving, and caring, and who can act on those feelings.

How do we address these issues individually? Aren’t they larger than we can handle?

I would like to suggest that each person who becomes responsible for his/her behavior is on the path to overcoming all the evils we encounter. How many of us do random acts of kindness just because it feels good? How many take actions, however small, to improve the day for even one person?  All of the good taking place in the world is more powerful than all of the evil/bad that takes the headlines. 

Before he died, my Father used to call me almost every day, and his first words to me were always: “what have you done for the good of the order?”  He never expected to hear earth-shattering news, but he just wanted to make sure I knew that I had the power to do something good at every turn. He was not a religious man, but his actions were on a Biblical level:  do something for the widows and orphans; teach young people the value of hard work; help anyone willing to learn without expecting anything in return but a ‘thank you;’ and to be respectful of every person.

As we say good-bye to 2014, my wish is to spread good and generosity where ever possible; to be thankful for the bounty we have; to be appreciative all I come in contact with; and to be kind to everyone, because everyone struggles in some way.

May you welcome the chance to improve life around you in 2015!  And enjoy every minute of the NOW that you are given.


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